normalized by Rachel Kitch (Virginia, 27)

Should I (22M) be concerned about my girlfriends (20F) past promiscuity? Or is it just a
phase

I (23M) felt jealous of my girlfriend (21F) and left the party early

I (26M) destroyed my gf's (24F) plants in a fit of rage and I think she may leave me

My GF (26F) broke down into tears the other day saying that she feels like she is being
raped when I (28M) have sex with her, and I don’t know how to deal with my feelings
about myself since then

I (32M) called my wife (30F) fat during an argument and now she’s not eating

My (42M) wife (40F) is getting over-controlling. Is it time to say something about it?

​Rachel is a speculative fiction novelist. She holds a Masters from the University of Pennsylvania and by day works as a humanity-centered visual designer.